home is where the heart is


day ten :: guest post :: traditions and family

Today’s heartwarming post about tradition and family is from a great crafter and blogger named Kelly.  Kelly Quinn is a some time blogger and owner of Lil’Stuff, an Etsy shop, that specializes in hand made products for home and baby.  She made our wet bags that I use every day and absolutely love.  You can find her shop here and her blog here.

home is where the heart is 

Christmas is a great time to talk about family traditions, it’s that time of year when families look forward to doing that thing they do every year…as our family has grown and expanded, traditions have come and gone…One of our all-time favorites is getting together with our good family friends for an evening of eating, exchanging gifts, and watching “A Christmas Story”.  There are seven boys between our two families so “A Christmas Story” just seemed to the right movie to watch!  (And yes, our holiday decorating does now include a “leg lamp”)  After about five years of “you’ll shoot your eye out!”, we realized we all were basically sleeping through the movie and it was time to move on…We still always get together, but we have switched traditions to playing games or just visiting.  All our boys are grown now and our families have expanded from 7 boys to …..7 boys, various spouses and a total between our two families of 11 grandchildren including our one on the way!


It’s those little things that make Christmas special for our families.  My kids look forward to wearing their red union suits on Christmas morning…when the older two go married, then their wives had to have them too…when our grand baby came along that first Christmas, she had one too!  They have to have peppermint reception sticks in their hot chocolate and, of course, we have a certain list of cookies that I have to make…repeatedly…or it doesn’t seem like Christmas!

Now our grandbaby is 3 and I am starting to create some “gramma’s house” traditions for her and whoever else might be coming along…Here are a few:

snowball fight

I stole this one from my friend’s mom (who is the most fun gramma I know): a bowl of giant white pom pom “snow balls”out on the coffee table, so that the little people can have their own snow ball fight and not hurt anything or each other…

fabes and train

Last year I started making a gingerbread house with my granddaughter (actually we made a train, as she was really into trains last year – this year we will do a house.)  It’s really just an excuse to sugar her up and send her home…lol…I had no expectations whatsoever about how it turned out, I just let her enjoy the journey and the candy…

advent truck

This year I am making her an advent calendar to count down to Christmas.  I wanted it to be more than just “open a door and have some candy” and I wanted to help her focus on the true meaning of Christmas, so I found a play nativity set, then I put candy in some of the drawers, and ornament for her little personal Christmas tree in some, and in the rest, I put clues as to where to find the pieces of the nativity.  That way we can talk about the Christmas story and she can play with her nativity set and decorate her tree…I am pretty excited about starting this tradition with her…

Like our other traditions, I am sure it will evolve over time, but that is the great part about families and traditions, they change over time, but they are always there for us…

Home truly is where the heart is.



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